Give Yourself the Gift of Self-Love! 30 Days of Self-Pleasure! #Giveaway #SexButter #infographic

Men do it, and women do it, too—so let’s remove the stigma of self-love and celebrate it instead.

In compiling an infographic on America’s solo sex habits, Adam & Eve has revealed some surprising statistics about who’s doing it, where it happens, and how often. For example, did you know that 4 out of 10 women actually prefer it over sex with a partner?

From Adam and Eve, here’s the link or see this infographic below! The question is why do women think it’s a big “no-no” or don’t talk about it when guys share this kind of 411 all the time? Don’t miss the interview with Sex Butter’s Bonnie Gayle after the graphic!


Here’s more information from Bonnie Gayle, the founder/creator of SEX BUTTER!

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LA-Story: Why do you think women resist the concept of self-pleasure? 

Self-pleasuring has been considered taboo for women since they were little girls. When a girl was caught touching her “private parts” in most cases she was scolded and made to feel ashamed. If it continued, she was punished. Sexual touch was for procreation, not pleasure. Women who were sexual had bad reputations.

LA-Story: How can self pleasure help a woman’s health?

Arousal and orgasm has so many physical benefits; increased circulation, increased immunity, better sleep, pain relief, healthy skin glow.

LA-Story: How can self pleasure help a woman’s state of mind?

Dopamine is released during orgasm creating a happier state of mind. The more dopamine released, the happier someone is.

LA-Story: What are some of the transformations that you’ve seen while interacting with your customers?

Sexual pain relief, relationships that were hardly sexual greatly increase in frequency and pleasure from the experience, people who had trouble achieving orgasm and climax had a much easier time, men have quicker recovery time, women have an increased sex drive overall.

LA-Story: Does a self pleasuring woman make a better lover, girlfriend, wife? 

@asexbutterbabe: Absolutely! The more a woman knows and understands her body and what pleases her, the more she can share with her partner so that he is able to please her as well. The more pleasure she experiences, the greater the desire for sex with her partner and the happier the person she will feel.

LA-Story: Describe your youngest customer and oldest customer.  Does age matter at all?

@sexbutterbabe: My youngest customer is in her 20s in a monogamous relationship enjoying her partner and exploring deeper pleasure. The oldest customer that I’m aware of is in her 70s and happy to be embodying sexual pleasure again after losing her desire to be sexual because of hormone changes and vaginal dryness. Age doesn’t matter. What matters is that you have a desire to fully embrace your body’s pleasure potential and stay open minded.

LA-Story:What do you think is the most important thing that self pleasure brings to society?

@sexbutterbabe: Most people have sexual feelings and desires that manifest negatively if they are not fulfilled. Sexual frustration causes anger and low self esteem if it’s not released. Self pleasuring is a way to release energy so that it isn’t built up in the body along with the enjoyment of learning what pleases you and knowing how to make yourself physically fulfilled.

LA-Story: So what are your plans for this year’s “National Masturbation Month?” (May is National Masturbation Month)

Recently I was at an event called “Path To Passion” led by an amazing Sex Educator, Jaiya who was extremely inspiring!

Not only did I get some amazing ideas and knowledge about my relationship, I also got inspired when I was speaking to someone recently about creating a 30 Day Challenge of Self Pleasuring during the month of May, which just happens to be Masturbation Month.

I recall doing a similar challenge myself a few years ago and what an impact it had on my life at the time. I decided that I want to be an inspiration for you to embody your sexual energy for positive life changes.

Aside from some of the benefits of orgasm

Glowing skin
Better sleep
Greater circulation
Increased immunity
Feeling happier

You will have the opportunity to experience a whole new feeling for the next 30 days that you can choose to carry with you on an ongoing basis! There are so many challenges you face daily that you will end up facing much more easily and effortlessly just by coming from a positive mental place.

What is Sex Butter?

Unlike other lubes which may contain non-natural products that can harm your body’s delicate ph balance, Sex Butter is made of the finest 100% organic ingredients which is important because your vagina has NO filter. Whatever you decide goes inside your body could potentially be harmful to your most delicate parts.

Unlike other lubes, Sex Butter has NO negative side effects. It maintains a healthy ph balance so you will not suffer from yeast or urinary infections after using Sex Butter. All of the ingredients are healthy for the skin and tissue and Sex Butter is anti-fungal / anti-bacterial. We care about your sexual health.

Unlike other lubes, Sex Butter doesn’t get hard, dry or crusty over time. It lasts and lasts for more pleasure during lovemaking. It’s naturally lubricating, easy to use and enjoy, and doesn’t make a big mess.

Enter to win one of three jars of Sex Butter below.

*All participating in this challenge can use this discount code CHALLENGE to get 15% off the purchase of a jar of Sex Butter.
Code must be supplied at time of purchase. No refunds for prior purchases.

The requirements of the challenge in order to be eligible to win a jar of Sex Butter are:

Enter RAFFLECOPTER to win 1 of 3 FREE jars of Sex Butter enabling you to help complete the 30 Day Self Pleasure Challenge.

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At the end of 30 Days, comment on this post letting me know how the #30DayPleasurePlanChallenge affected your life.
Commit to the Self-Pleasuring Challenge and have your life change in ways you never imagined in just 30 Days! This is the most amazing investment in yourself that will rock your world (in more ways than one)! Enter HERE!

The Rafflecopter Contest is totally separate and not the same contest as the challenge! You can enter the rafflecopter and the 30 Day Challenge is not required for the rafflecopter prizes!

Contest Requirements:
-Contest is open to both sexes
-Winners must be willing to comment/tweet about their use of Sex Butter and the 30 days of self-pleasure challenge.
-Winners must be in the US, over the age of 18.
-Winners must reply within 5 business days with
-Name, complete street address , phone number and email address are required to get this product to you quickly.(No PO/APO/FPO addresses sorry!) There will be a tracking number mailed to winners when product is shipped.
-Winners will be required to notify Sex Butter’s Bonnie Gayle of receipt of product!

Contest Liability Limitations:

Sex Butter, Bonnie Gayle or (Stevie Wilson) are not responsible for lost, stolen or damaged packages– particularly packages damaged due to weather. They are packed as best and safely as possible.
Neither Sex Butter, Bonnie Gayle nor are responsible for any allergies to the ingredients, incorrect use of the product or any other uses for these products. This is a topically used body product. Use them safely, use them wisely.
Winner is responsible for all taxes or other fees.
There is no liability for this product and how you use it by Sex Butter, Bonnie Gayle or myself/LA-Story blog.

Thankyou to Marie Bargas and to Bonnie Gayle for this extensive piece!

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